In life, we are often thrown obstacles, some that happen out of now where. Dealing with a break up is unfortunately one of them that many of us hate to deal with.
Screaming into your pillow, crying your eyes out watching those romantic movies, deleting old pictures, the worst .. coming across their things. These are just some of the heartaches that make dealing with a break up harder than imaginable.
So you just broke up with the person of your dreams. After 3 years together, everything is gone. Your bed is empty and so is your heart. You feel like your half complete.
So what now?
Smile, live and move on.
After all, tomorrow is a new day and life has to move forward.
Your soul mate is out there some where, you just haven’t found them yet. Take this break up as a good thing. Remember, practice makes perfect. Break ups help make you better at relationships for your soul mate. It helps make you a better person and helps make you stronger.
Here are five things to remember during a break up, that will hopefully make it a little bit easier:
It is okay to cry. Your heart is broken and you are confused. Let it all out. Sob, scream, cry some more. It is okay.
2. Save some of those memories
When you are going through a break up, especially one that had a significant purpose in your life; maybe your first love, first kiss, etc. Whatever the reason, save some memories. You will want them later on in your life. 5 or 10 years later, you will look at them and smile, either A. laughing at what you taught could be love or B. just having those memories handy. Your memories are what makes your life. Don’t remove them completely.
3. Live your life
You can’t just lay in bed all day letting your life go to waste. Get out of bed, and continue your day as you would normally. It’ll be hard at first but before you know it it’ll get easier. Go out with friends, don’t cancel your plans, have a nice laugh. You need to remember that in life things happen, you can’t stop your life because of them.
Close your eyes and take a deep breath and find your reason to smile. Everyone has a reason to smile, whatever it maybe. But you do. Is the sunset just beautiful today? Your friends, family members calling to remind you how much they love you? A pay check just come in from work? Find your reason to smile.
5. Don’t lose hope
Although your heart may be broken at this time and you can’t even imagine being with someone else, don’t lose hope. There is someone out there for you. You just haven’t found them yet. Life your life and slowly but surely that special one will come around. Who knows, if that is ‘the one’ but just give it a ride. See if it works out, if it doesn’t just remember that life goes on. There will be someone else. Someone greater.